Hormone therapy and low libido: causes and coping
Hormone Therapy and Low Libido: What to Expect and How to Cope
Many people notice a lower interest in sex (low libido) after starting hormone therapy, and this can be a common, expected effect depending on the type of therapy and dose. [1] Low libido may also come along with other sexual changes like fewer erections or vaginal dryness, which together can reduce sexual comfort and desire. [1] In breast cancer endocrine therapies (such as tamoxifen or aromatase inhibitors), sexual disorders with low libido are frequently reported and can affect day‑to‑day quality of life. [PM7]
Why Libido Can Drop on Hormone Therapy
- Sex hormones shift: Feminizing hormone therapy lowers testosterone levels, which can reduce spontaneous sexual desire and erections over time. [1] For many, a decrease in libido begins within 1–3 months and can continue to evolve over 1–2 years. [1]
- Cancer endocrine therapy effects: Treatments that block estrogen (tamoxifen, aromatase inhibitors, ovarian suppression) may worsen menopausal symptoms such as vaginal dryness and pain, which can dampen desire. [PM9]
- Menopause itself: Natural or treatment‑induced menopause lowers estrogen, often causing vaginal dryness and discomfort that make sex less appealing. [2]
- Whole‑person factors: Mood changes, fatigue, body image shifts, and relationship stress can also contribute; these are commonly noted during prolonged endocrine therapy courses. [PM7]
What’s “Normal” and When to Ask for Help
- Timeline and intensity vary: Libido changes can start within months of therapy and may plateau or fluctuate; not everyone is affected to the same degree. [1]
- Sexual pain is treatable: Vaginal dryness and genitourinary syndrome of menopause are common and manageable; treating discomfort often improves desire. [PM9]
- If distressing, speak up: Report sexual changes early; clinicians can offer tailored strategies or referrals to sexual medicine specialists. [PM9]
Evidence‑Based Ways to Cope
1) Address Comfort and Arousal
- Regular vaginal moisturizers (for daily comfort) and water‑based lubricants (during sex) can reduce friction and pain, improving enjoyment and desire. [3] [4]
- Longer, gentler foreplay and trying different positions may help arousal and reduce discomfort. [3] [5]
- Open communication with your partner about dryness and treatment‑related changes can lower anxiety and rebuild intimacy. [4] [5]
2) Review Medications and Options
- Talk with your clinician about whether the hormone regimen or dose can be adjusted if sexual side effects are severe; switching therapies is sometimes considered in oncology after weighing cancer control. [PM7]
- Manage hot flashes and sleep: Non‑hormonal options (like certain antidepressants, gabapentin, or clonidine) are used for vasomotor symptoms; easing these may help energy and sexual interest. [PM8]
- Local vaginal therapies: For vulvovaginal atrophy, targeted treatments (including specialty approaches like CO₂ laser in select cases) are discussed when standard measures are not enough. [PM7] [PM9]
3) Sexual Health Specialist Support
- Specialty clinics in female sexual medicine can provide personalized plans, counseling, and device or therapy options. [4]
- Ask proactively: Many people hesitate to bring up sexual concerns, but early guidance often improves outcomes. [PM9]
4) Lifestyle and Relationship Care
- Physical activity and mindfulness may ease stress, boost mood and body confidence, and indirectly support sexual interest. [PM7]
- Couples‑based strategies and scheduling intimate time can help when spontaneous desire is lower, keeping connections strong. [PM9]
Testosterone Therapy in Specific Situations
For postmenopausal women with hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD) and no clear cause, low‑dose testosterone can sometimes improve sexual desire, though it is not universally approved and safety data especially long‑term are limited. [PM11] More evidence supports its use after surgical menopause (oophorectomy) where ovarian testosterone drops abruptly, but careful risk‑benefit discussion and monitoring are essential. [PM10] [PM11] Decisions should be individualized, and other measures are typically tried first. [6]
Quick Tips You Can Use Today
- Use a vaginal moisturizer several times weekly for baseline comfort and a water‑based lubricant during sex to reduce pain. [3]
- Extend foreplay and experiment with positions to find what feels best now. [4] [5]
- Discuss side effects openly with your clinician and partner; it’s a common, manageable issue on hormone therapy. [PM9] [4]
Summary
Low libido can be a side effect of several forms of hormone therapy, including feminizing regimens and breast cancer endocrine treatments, and often relates to hormonal shifts plus comfort factors like dryness and pain. [1] [PM9] The good news is that targeted sexual health strategies moisturizers and lubricants, therapy adjustments, symptom management, and specialist support can meaningfully improve sexual well‑being for many people. [3] [PM7] [PM9]
Related Questions
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- 3.^abcdAdjuvant Therapy for Breast Cancer: What It Is, How To Manage Side Effects, and Answers to Common Questions(mskcc.org)
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